Wednesday, February 14, 2007
It may be gloomy February, but there are many a betrothed couple who are planning their nuptials. That invitation can't be too far away. Perhaps it is time to start gift shopping???
How about a mezuzah for the broken glass? According to the Guide to the Jewish Wedding from Aish.com
A glass is now placed on the floor, and the chatan shatters it with his foot. This act serves as an expression of sadness at the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem, and identifies the couple with the spiritual and national destiny of the Jewish people. A Jew, even at the moment of greatest rejoicing, is always mindful of the Psalmist's injunction to set Jerusalem above my highest joy.
Others explain that this is the last time the groom gets to put his foot down.
(In Israel, the glass is broken earlier, prior to the reading of the Ketubah.)
This marks the conclusion of the ceremony. With shouts of Mazel Tov, the chatan (groom) and kallah (bride) are then given an enthusiastic reception from the guests as they leave the chupah together and head toward the Yichud room, their temporary private chamber
I have to confess that my broken glass is sitting at home in a box with other wedding parephinalia. One of these days I will do something like this:
From left to right are mezuzot from Sara Beames, Faye Miller Shardz and Arthur and Wendy Silver.
What a beautiful way to remember such a special day!